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To think he's just not interested in her?

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freda44 · 11/10/2018 12:48

Trying to help my friend but when I try and tell her what I think she says she thinks he is genuine.
She's been seeing him 6 months and found out he was still on tinder,he told her he wasn't chatting too anyone just looking.
Then he asked her if she wanted him to come off tinder.
While he was with her his phone rang and it was a woman ..he said it was someone he was speaking to 6 months ago and she rang out of the blue (I said he's probably been chatting to her on tinder recently )
He hasn't seen my friend for 14 days,he has a throat infection and showed her the tablets.
He won't come and see her (she says it's because he is self con because he has cold sores and doesn't want her to go off him)
She rang him last night but no answer ..he said he wasn't going to see her tonight as still sick.
He said we will go for a meal when I better ..she asked when and he said he didn't know but would let her know.

Isn't it obvious that he couldn't care a less?
I'm trying too help her but taking zero notice.
Or am I wrong here?

OP posts:
recklessruby · 11/10/2018 13:08

No you are not wrong. It sounds as if he still wants to play the field on tinder and isn't brave enough to tell her face to face that it's over. All the excuses are a bit silly and I bet the meal won't happen due to something else going wrong.

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