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No birthday wishes?

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Pusheenicorn · 06/10/2018 09:54

So of my group of 6 girlfriends, only one of them wished me a happy birthday.

AIBU to be slightly upset? All been friends for 15 years.

I know they are annoyed that I stopped drinking and so don't join them on big nights out anymore but always go when we are meeting for coffee or a meal or taking the kids/dogs to the park...

Should I say something?!

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Gizlotsmum · 06/10/2018 09:54

When was your birthday?

BIgBagofJelly · 06/10/2018 09:55

If they did it deliberately because you stopped drinking then yes that's awful. Do you all have Facebook so they would have been reminded? Do they always normally remember?

Pusheenicorn · 06/10/2018 09:57

It was yesterday, and yes have them all on the usual social media so I assume they would have known, plus chatting on Snapchat where my little Snapchat character thing had a party hat on and holding a Birthday cake (it does that itself I didn't do myself!!!)

They have always said happy birthday accompanied by an awful picture from a night out before.

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BIgBagofJelly · 06/10/2018 09:58

That's horrible then YADNBU. If their friendship is so precarious that it falls apart when you stop drinking they sound like horrible friends.

Pusheenicorn · 06/10/2018 10:18

It almost feels premeditated for ALL of them to not do it. Fair enough if one or two forgot...

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