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To be sick of being bullied?

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Dumbfounded23 · 29/09/2018 10:21

Split up with DP this year. Decided to meet up with old school friends, go out a bit more, socialise etc.
They’re big on cocaine, I’m ashamed to say on theee occasions over the 8 weekends I went out with them I did some.
Suddenly, out the blue, one of the group states they slept with me. This isn’t true. All of the group knew about him saying this for weeks, but instead of tell me/sticking up for me, they gossip behind my back and spread awful rumours.
After finding out, I shared my displeasure at how much of shit friends they are.
They are now spreading rumours that I’ve slept with many different people, saying they’re sharing sexual photos of me, calling me all sorts of awful names. I get texts and phone calls every week from different people from the group. I don’t know how to make this stop, we live in a small village and it seems the group are telling everyone who will listen. It’s getting me down and defaming me.
What can I do?

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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 29/09/2018 10:35

sharing sexual photos of you. You are aware that's illegal aren't you.
To be honest I can't see any caring about how many people you've slept or rather allegedly slept with. If in the unlikely event anyone does comment shock them and say "Whats it got to do with you."
Would you care how many people such a body had slept with.
Also you're a 9 day wonder.

Dumbfounded23 · 29/09/2018 10:42

There’s no photos of me there can’t be. It’s the abusive messages and phone calls that’s getting to me calling me all sorts.
I agree I wouldn’t give a toss who is sleeping with who. When it’s about you it’s infuriating.
Woke up to another round of abusive messages today and it hurts. I just want it to stop.

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Rinoachicken · 29/09/2018 10:44

You need to block all their numbers and find some new friends. These people are not your friends 💐

malificent7 · 29/09/2018 10:44

Stop hanging out with them and get new friends. One cocaine users have massive inflated egos caused by drugs. Uggggrrrr!

malificent7 · 29/09/2018 10:44

Ime even ...

Thatstheendofmytether · 29/09/2018 10:46

You could report it to the police?

Thatstheendofmytether · 29/09/2018 10:47

Also block all of them and stop communicating with them.

MrsAJ27 · 29/09/2018 10:52

Tell them to fuck off and leave you alone...then block them.

They sound very pathetic and immature, you are better off without them.

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