To expect my BF to let me know if she is coming to a concert with me??

[sparklygothkat]

I have a BF who I have known since I was 5. Anyway we are both big Darren Hayes fans and I managed to get 2 tickets for a small gig he is playing in london. I went to one of the small gigs in april and it was excellent, but it was too short notice for her to come down (fair enough)

I phoned her the day i got the tickets, about 2 weeks ago (the gig is in 2 week time, so 4 weeks notice) and she said she had to get time of work, and flights down from scotland. She hasn't answered my texts asking if she has managed to get the time off work etc. She has replied once and it was really snotty.

DH thinks that I should just find someone else to go with (my cousin's girlfriend has said she will come if BF doesn't) and forget about BF. But i am worried that at the last minute BF will say she is coming down and then I am stuffed.

All I want to know is if she is coming. grrr

Phone her up and speak to her. Don't rely on texts - she could be like me and never checks her mobile.

I'd send her one last message saying please let me know by (whenever) otherwise i'm taking my cousin's girlfriend. Then if she changes her mind suddenly its too late and you warned her that the ticket would go?

Phone her.

I have tried to phone her, but don;t have her home number, only her mobile, but she works funny shifts so never know if she is working or sleeping

I would call her & say what Jenswish said That way she knows you will have some other use for the ticket & she can't give you a snotty reply on the phone

Is this JB? Did Misdee tell the gossip I had heard? Don't know whether to believe it or not.
Give her a date to let you know, if no contact then go with the cousin's GF.

yes PC JB. I haven't heard any gossip, log onto MSN.

I can let you know if it is true or not.

Phone and leave a message rather than a text.