AIBU to tell my 12 year old DD that she can't wear these?

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Boots

What are your reasons for not wanting her to wear them?

Why not?

Agreed. Too grown up.

£170? To look like a stripper? I don't think so!

I’d say far too high a heel.

Why not? They are shoes.

How does she have them to wear? Or do you mean you wont buy her them?

I see nothing wrong with these. DD is 12 and has similar ankle version.

They're far too high for a child. I'd not let my 11 year old wear anything like that, she'd break her neck.

My dd's ankles would prob go over and snap!

A stripper?

Too high. Long term foot and ankle difficulties

YANBU

Although I’d never pay that much for boots unless they did the walking for me and gave me a foot rub while they were at it

Oh no, too high a heel. Won’t be good for her feet!

I started wearing heels far too young. Ended up with hammertoes

They are very adult, that can't be denied. What is she planning to wear with them?

There is nothing wrong with them. They aren't sexualized. Pick your battles. You may find they are so annoying and clunky she chooses not to wear them again.

If she doesn't already have them I wouldn't buy the I have a pair of Timberlake ankle boots with a heel and I can honestly day they are the most uncomfortable shoes I have ever worn. Obviously just my opinion.

Is she a goth? or a harry potter fan?

Too high. She would look odd - assuming she is average 12 year old sized.

A stripper?

they are very can can

Nope. They are too high. What purpose would they have?

Oh my gosh so my many typos in my response! Sorry

Ok they would be ok with leggings/leggings/jeans....but a bit too grown up for her age if she wanted to wear them with a mini skirt, short dress or hot pants

Too high for a 12 year old. Her bones are still growing and hardening and shouldn’t really be in heels. Plus, £170 for boots for a child who may outgrow them anytime?