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To not enjoy being kissed?

4 replies

SugarToothbrush · 19/09/2018 07:54

Not all kisses, I'm quite fond of affectionate kissing but since I had a baby a couple of years ago some issues I have with textures seem to have skyrocketed and now I really do not enjoy 'wet' kisses or having a tongue in my mouth. I've always been weird with warm, soft, wet food (don't like mash or purée, can't abide rice pudding, can't be doing with beans on toast etc etc) and now that seems to have encompassed other things. Its worse later in my cycle and it has definitely improved in the last 6 months but it's still there. Happened to anyone else?

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Bambamber · 19/09/2018 07:55

Same thing with me

Roo2012 · 19/09/2018 07:56

Yes but I've never admitted it. And thinking about it it was the same timing, after pregnancy, but never changed.

JustlikeDevon · 19/09/2018 08:02

Depends who is doing the kisses. Many men think kissing is the equivalent of cleaning out a receptacle with q bottle brush. Few faster ways,to get dumped after a first date.

MissusGeneHunt · 19/09/2018 08:28

Yeah, not a fan either, but thought I was the only one... Don't think mine appeared at any stage, it just feels so intrusive.

I'm not great at physical intimacy though, although affection is good, and I like to give affection as much as receive it from DP.

But sloppy kisses, just no. I know, it's probably difficult for the 'giver', but it is what it is.

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