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AIBU to say anything about this?

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NoKnickerElastic · 16/09/2018 09:38

Friend's DH, who I also considered a friend, make a drunken pass at me. We're not close but see them socially every couple of months. I like the guy and am cross that this has happened, I turned him down immediately and walked away from him. I would never dream of telling his wife but AIBU not to tell my DH? I don't like the idea of having a secret like this but if I tell him I worry that future social events will be awkward. WWYD?

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mrsjackrussell · 16/09/2018 09:45

I would try to forget it especially if he were drunk and it's never happened before. I wonder if he will remember? He's probably horrified at what he's done.

cheesydoesit · 16/09/2018 10:00

I'd tell your DH otherwise you become complicit in the lie and it might become a big thing. You have nothing to be guilty of so why burden yourself with it in the form of a secret? Has your friend's husband apologised yet?

LemonSqueezy0 · 16/09/2018 10:03

Yes, at the very least tell your DH.

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