That it takes two to tango...

[sophisticatedsarcasm]

A friend of mine recently found out his gf was cheating on him and his first response was I’m gonna kill that fucker. After 2 hours of convincing him that she isn’t all that innocent he calmed down.
It’s the same with women who find out thier blokes have been cheating, they immediately blame the other women. Aibu to think both are to blame and it takes two to tango.......
I’m not saying the other man/women are entirely innocent unless of course they are totally unaware said person was already in a relationship.
🤔🤔

I think it is because people would prefer to think their loved one was lured away without wanting to, than to think they chose to cheat.

You can't get between a genuinely happy couple. You just can't.

so, you're not wrong.

But people do also get complacent.