To be pissed at my husband

[MRSMARMITE3]

He bought some noise cancelling headphones and wears them loads. I have to shout at him to get his attention. He's watching things on his phone at the time and he will argue and say I'm on my phone but I can hear him. I feel massively shut out and our child will be going "dad dad" and he doesn't notice

No you anbu! How rude of him to sit in a room with his family wearing them. If he wants peace and quiet he can fuck off to the middle of a field by himself. Sorry op, but I'd be furious if my partner seriously did that.

YANBU how incredibly rude to wear them when he's in the same room and supposedly interacting with his family. Surely he can agree to only where them when he is in a separate room.

Why are you bothering to shout? If he's on his phone, message him. Even better dish to him first then message asking if he heard you. Regularly.

Ugh. HIBVU

Get a remote control anklet that can shock him when you need him.

How daft is he to not know how fucking rude and immature this is? He might as well not even be there. I would tell him he either takes them off or he can go elsewhere. He's ignoring you like you're the fucking hired help.

What an utter knob. Chuck them in the outside bin when he's not looking. Under a huge pile of kitchen rubbish. "No I haven't seen them dear, when did you last have them?"

What was he like before he got them?

Why is he even using his phone when he's in the same room as you? Ask him why he doesn't think you're important enough for his full attention.

Pissed off, not pissed.

Pissed = drunk
You mean pissed off

Pissed off, not pissed.

Once again British people demonstrate their inability to understand that the internet is international.

YANBU. Your husband is rude. Simple.

Stupo, MN started in Britain and I'd be willing to bet that the largest number of people on it are British. I agree, it is pissed OFF.

Stupo, MN started in Britain and I'd be willing to bet that the largest number of people on it are British. I agree, it is pissed OFF.

Nope. No need to tell other people how to speak. It makes you look xenophobic and a bit small-minded.

It's pissed off. Tell him to take off his headphones, put his phone away and act like an adult.

OP, you are absolutely reasonable. He is being a dick and I'd be putting his headphones through the Shredder.

Stupomax, in Britain we are allowed to speak English without being deemed xenophobic. How about you piss off and tell the Germans not to use their language or some such shit.

And while with there, it's pissed off with you're DH. Not pissed at. (I know, Im BU!)

YANBU, what an ignorant arse putting those headphones on!

Is he 13???

Maybe I'll get pissed to make it seem less annoying that he's doing it. I've told him to go in another room if he wants to wear them and he responded "so I can't watch TV in my own house without being sent away" bloody listen to me then!

Stupomax, in Britain we are allowed to speak English without being deemed xenophobic. How about you piss off and tell the Germans not to use their language or some such shit.

You entirely missed my point.

I would walk up with a pair of scissors and cut them up

Stupomax Someone who refers to herself as Mrs Marmite is likely to be British so piss off with the xenophobia accusations.

How about this: if you are British and live in the UK, you WBU to say “pissed” instead of “pissed off”