To go on date soon after separtion.

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I instigated separation- 6mths ago.
I know this is likely to hurt Ex (we get on ok - 4 kids).
I left.
I want to go on date but dont know if it is reasonable.
AIBU to start dating? Is it too soon.
If it makes a difference -i am male.

Why does Ex need to know ?

Your life, I'd say go for it.

Isn't it likely to be a bit more of an issue for the kids?

Of course it's reasonable, but she doesn't need to know. It's your private life. She might be dating anyway, for all you know.