Exp split up when I was pg due to him controlling and gaslighting me. After we split I had nasty texts saying he had seen my ex husband's work van parked two streets away ( he doesn't have a van and I wasn't seeing anyone) asking for DNA tests and I started getting mysterious multiple punctures. After she was born he wanted contact so I agreed eow initially. Then every weekend. Then he started missing weekends vv last minute ( think control thing again). So I stopped contact. After a few weeks he agreed every weekend and a week to take her to the seaside. This year he said he was taking her for 2 weeks in the 6w holidays. Guess what, he cancelled. I referred to agreement saying he would take her away for a week once a year and said I wanted a week in October. He said 'no one makes demands on me' and stormed off. ( Sunday as he was dropping her off). I'm soooooo fed up of this - she's nearly 5 and gets upset when he lets her down . Thanks for reading this far. WWYD?