By my husbands response last night.
For context, he is a very deep character vs my 'wear your heart sleeve' personality.
Got home from work and he was quiet, not particularly unusual but I asked him how he was. All ok. Few hours later, not much improvement so I asked again what was troubling him? He got really grumpy. Accused me of being an amateur physiologist. Ffs!
I'm a bit pissed off that showing concern is met with such a poor response.
Rant over!