MIL is vindictive. It’s her way or else. After a recent row after I caught her lying yet again to get her own way, she told the entire family to send me to Coventry (which they did) and tried to get DH to sneak my son to them without md knowing. (DH told me, showed me the email).
I’ve had it with them. I don’t like or trust them. I don’t think my son gains anything by knowing them, in fact they are bad role models.