I’ve seen so many posts recently about women worried there partner might be cheating and I can’t help but wonder why woman feel they are responsible for whether their partner cheats or not?
I’m a member of a FB group (local mum tribe type of thing) and there are so many comments of “you need to stop him from doing X before he cheats”
I’m not being combative, but I honestly don’t know why people feel this would make a difference?
I’ve always believed it’s my responsibility to insure I don’t cheat and my husbands responsibility to insure he doesn’t. I cant be responsible for making sure he doesn’t cheat - I’d go mad!
You can’t stop a dog from peeing on a tree, the most you can do is tell him what tree.