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UnlawfulBananaPeeler · 13/08/2018 19:57

I fell out with a long term best friend over a year ago now over some serious stuff. We’ve seen each other a few times, though very strained and horrible. I feel I’ve been the bigger person in terms of just talking to her in the group and carried on as normal where as she’s barely spoke/ignored me.
There’s a group of 5 friends , the three of us have been best friends since primary school (13+ years). The mutual friend we both still speak to is having a baby and she asked me to plan her baby shower.
I started a group with (not talking to)friend and another friend from the group and the (not talking to)friend is ignoring me completely but talking to other friend. Who is also talking to me (we’re a a lot closer).

WIBU to delete the group and just plan it with the person who is taking an interest and actually talking to me?

I’m so mad about it!

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UnlawfulBananaPeeler · 13/08/2018 19:59

The friend I’m not talking to also has made some arguments ect in the group but I’m the only one who got to the point of enough being enough in regards to the reasons we no longer talk. I know it’s juvenile but it’s so disrespectful that I’m really trying and she is blatantly ignoring me

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Aquamarine1029 · 13/08/2018 19:59

I would. Who needs all that drama and nonsense in their life?

ShumpaLumpa · 13/08/2018 20:05

YANBU at all. Delete the group.

You're well ridiculous of the childish tit.

Keep the group chat or screenshots of her ignoring.

UnlawfulBananaPeeler · 14/08/2018 17:21

I think ill keep the group ans just let her be involved as she wants. It’s not going to be me that comes off looking bad when it comes to the planning and things I suppose!

Plus I’m excited to plan it so it’s her loss really if she wants to stay childish. Thanks guys!

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