CIN is only one organisation - they have to prioritise their funding against endless need, and that means they have to have rules about where their donations go. Regardless of what their rules are, there will inevitably be times when it leads to results people are unhappy about.
We should be directing our outrage at the government for chronically underfunding rape crisis centres.
I also wonder how many of you donate to your local rape crisis centre? I’m sure some of you do, but I expect some of you also complain about CIN not supporting organisations that you don’t support yourself...