to find out through a friend that your sister is getting married the next day.

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aren't they lovely and supportive essbee.

Stuff them. You are not being unreasonable but your family are

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Neighbours back from hols?

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Oh how horrible

What's the *** matter with them?!? They are being utterly, completely unreasonable.

WTF??????????

for you

Anyway, calm down. It's not like they asked a favour of you shortly afterwards or anything.

jeez they really are sh*t people aren't they?

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oh my god

how farking awful

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Hey essbee, your ds left Ralph's autograph here. I'll put it in the post in the next day or two.

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still f*cking rude not to tell you that in advance IMHO, but glad you have sorted things out a bit

That was very reasonable of you essbee!! If I were you I would still be sulking I'm afraid. I hope you're feeling better having cleared the air, even if they have still treated you pretty shoddily (IMO)

I don't see the porblem of having "no family" but not to tell you at all??