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To think my sisters friend dislikes me?

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iliveinchucks · 05/08/2018 17:42

I’ve only met her 3 times and they haven’t been friends long, maybe under 2 years.

The last two times I saw her I looked at her to say hello and she just never even acknowledges me.

Once was when I was with my sister collecting my niece from school (they live far away so this is very rare) and it was just the 3 of us and it was like I’m a ghost.

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AnExcellentUsername · 05/08/2018 17:44

So?

NewYearNewMe18 · 05/08/2018 17:45

What does your sister say ?

Sweetcarrielynne · 05/08/2018 17:49

Presumably you don't need to see her very often? If so I would try not to let it bother you. She may have taken a dislike to you, or she may just be very shy / awkward with people she doesn't know

Thatsfuckingshit · 05/08/2018 17:51

See I don't interact with my best friends sister that much.

Firstly I don't know her that well. Secondly I am very aware that I see my best friend loads more often than her sister sees her. So when her sister is there I tend to back off to let them have time together.

Singlenotsingle · 05/08/2018 17:54

So maybe she's shy? Maybe she's jealous? It doesn't matter, does it? it?

9amTrain · 05/08/2018 18:25

So forget her and move her. She's just a friend of your sister, nothing else.

9amTrain · 05/08/2018 18:25

Move on *

Jimdandy · 05/08/2018 18:41

Some people are just rude/ignorant.

I do t buy all this “shy” stuff.

I’m shy/socially awkward but I can force a “hi” out of my mouth.

Forget it and move on .

hazell42 · 05/08/2018 19:07

She doesn't have to like you. She's not your friend

Nanny0gg · 05/08/2018 19:30

She doesn't have to like you. She's not your friend

She could have some manners and be polite though.

sonjadog · 05/08/2018 19:35

I dont think my brother and sil´s friends like me very much. I don't really care. They aren't part of my life. Do you see a lot of your sisters friend?

CSIblonde · 05/08/2018 20:03

She's either socially challenged or rude. But as she's your sisters friend not yours I wouldn't be that bothered - unless I had to spend a lot of time round her.

haribosmarties · 05/08/2018 20:06

why on earth and how even could she dislike you if she hardly knows you and you barely see each other? Much more likely that she is just a cold or shy person in general and its nothing personal.

Stirner · 05/08/2018 20:08

@iliveinchucks you need to get a life

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