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[HelenR9]

Went to a hen do last night and got home in the early hours of this morning rather the worse for wear. I realised DH was fast asleep and I had a problem. I couldn't get my dress off without help. Should I have woken him up or slept in my dress?

I’d have woken him.

This is based on the fact that my DP cannot have a night out without waking me in the early hours though. So I’d relish the opportunity.

I’d have slept in the dress. I wouldn’t have wanted to be woken up by him in the same circumstances.

I'd have been happy to help my wife, it's part of marriage to help each other.

Slept in the dress.

Slept in the dress. If it was the other way round and ‘drunken childish dh came in at 3am and woke me up demanding my help undressing himself’ mn would have a field day 😂

I would have loudly announced "HEEELLLOOOO I'M HOME!!" in a fit of giggles before even realising I couldn't get out of my dress.

DH says in the same circumstances he'd be happy to be woken up if I then made it up to him

Slept in dress

I don't understand why you couldn't get your dress off.
No you shouldn't have woken him up, it's not his fault. Mind you, knowing men they soon go back to sleep.

Slept in the dress

I'd have slept in the dress.

Woken him up, my DH wouldn't have wanted me to be uncomfortable all night and he'd soon fall back to sleep

Woken him up

I'd have woken him if I was sober but depending how drunk I was I'd have probably thought fuck it and slept in the dress

I would have giggled all the way upstairs, then fallen in the bed and woken DH to help, while still giggling.

Did you wake your DH and did he get cross? Is that why you’re asking for help?

I'd have slept in the dress.

I'd have woken my DH and asked for help as I would hate to think either of us would lie uncomfortable all night rather than ask for assistance, even if it did mean waking the other! It would be annoying to be woken but a really loving partner would rather help I think (as long as it's not happening all the time!).

Just come across this thread. What was the problem with getting the dress off. Did you wake DH up?

I'd have slept in the dress. As I wouldn't appreciate DH waking me up drunk asking me help him out of his clothes!

Woken him up. And I’d expect him to wake me if he can home wearing a dress (sw I could take a pic).

This happened to me once.
After about 20 minutes of attempting to 'hulk' my way out of the dress, I ended up using scissors and attempted to sew it back together.
DH has told me in future to just wake him up...

i'd have woken him, made all sorts of rash promises about what I might do in return for the favour of undoing my frock, and leap seductively into bed and then promptly fall unconscious into bed and snore like a drunken warthog for the entire night.

In reply to Clare.
The dress is tight - probably too tight! It has no fastenings so has to be pulled off over my head. I get to the point where it just needs to be pushed up at the back but with my arms trapped above my head I’m stuck.
I woke DH by accident! I decided to try to get the dress off on the landing. It was over my head and I was well into my wiggle to try to work it free when I knocked a painting off the wall. I heard the bedroom door open. He burst into laughter. I had to accept a friendly bit of teasing before he helped!

Well given how entertaining it was I don't think it was unreasonable to wake him. I would happily pay to wake up to the sight of my DH trapped in a stripper dress.