After putting up with irresponsible selfish behaviour, I have just found out my OH has told his parents we are experiencing difficulties.
AIBU to think it would have been nice if he'd sent 'positive' news to his parents rather than continously giving them news that is always negative? - Not just that, aside from the fact that he knows I'm not happy with how he is, he lets his parents know we're experiencing difficulties but no mention at all as to WHY