He’s decided to redecorate the whole house and moved all the furniture, taken up carpets and left paint, brushes, dust sheets and paraphernalia everywhere when he knows our daughter is home with us for the first time in a year ( she works abroad). AIBU I’m feeling this will make her feel unwelcome, and he should have waited until she left. I really wanted a nice relaxing family time and the house is a chaotic mess. If I offer to help I am criticised.