My DP goes out around once a month with her friends (as do I) no issues. About once every 3 months she goes out along with a man she's friends with - he doesn't live near us and has to stay with us - every time she ends up so drunk,wakes me,can't remember getting home etc. Last night was one of those nights - woke me up twice even though decided to sit and have a drink with him (I wanted her to have water,he wanted her to have beer) she had a beer. They are still sleeping now and I feel like sneaking out. I'm angry with her and him. I have said before she needs to pace herself and not try keep up with him. I also have a lot of work to do today but I'm annoyed,tired and he will probably stay until 4 r 5. She knows I have work to do. AIBU to be annoyed and want to go out so I don't have to spend the day with them??