I’m a cleaner, that’s my job. My house however isn’t clean...or tidy. I was a stay at home mum for a few years and my house was clean then. I got a part time cleaning job because I felt that I needed something ‘for me’
My OH used (when I wasn’t working) to help with the housework. He did the clothes washing and hoovered everywhere. Since I went to work he asks my teenage son (his dss) to hoover, I’m expected to do the clothes washing and everything else that I did before. (Clean bathroom, downstairs toilet, kitchen, washing...everything.’ We have 2
young dc, 2&4 so while I’m at work he’s feeding them and my teen their dinner, sorting homework and bedtime.
The household jobs are building up, things like cleaning windows, tops
Of cabinets, decluttering
Etc..