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Help me see the funny side??

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SweetPea90 · 15/07/2018 22:57

So not to drip feed me and DP have a DD 4months and DSD 14yo.
We go out tonight, us 4 and DP brothers family. My dad tags along.
My mum meets us after work - she's not drinking.
We all have a good time, laughing and enjoying the sun!
My parents leave, I then get a message from DM "your DD is on Facebook with 3 drunken men for everyone to see"
I am baffled, literally! Last picture taken was of my DP and our DD by me by a lorry (DP loves them) and then his mates were taking the piss of him so asked me to take more pictures as a joke of them by his mates car!
So my DP just posted them all to Facebook.
My DM has taken offence for some reason. I tried to tell her all the pictures were in jest. The last message I got was "I guess we find different things funny"
AIBU to think F off!!!!

OP posts:
imsoboredwithitall · 15/07/2018 23:00

So are there pictures of your DD & drunken men?

SweetPea90 · 15/07/2018 23:06

No my DP, his bro and best mate asked me to take a picture of them taking the piss out of DP and my DD was in the corner of the picture. No1 was drunk, it was all a joke.
They were all taking the P out of DP because he loves lorries!

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spudlet7 · 15/07/2018 23:06

I don't understand... can you explain more clearly OP?

spudlet7 · 15/07/2018 23:07

Sorry cross post. So they're just messing about by a car?

SweetPea90 · 15/07/2018 23:33

Basically, I've taken photos of my DP and his mates around a lorry and a car. My DD happens to be in a few of them. The guys are being very OTT in them as they are taking the piss out of my DP. As a joke.
My DM seems to have taken offence by them purely because my DD happens to be in a few of them. It was all very light hearted.
She seems to be making out that we aren't responsible parents through the messages we have received.

My DP was having a joke which I was very clearly involved in, neither of us was drunk. But my DM seems to want to paint my DP in a bad light.
I just can't see what she wants to achieve, apart from pushing me away.

OP posts:
Awwlookatmybabyspider · 15/07/2018 23:37

Your Mum refers to her GD as "your daughter" rather than our Ellie (had to call her something). It sounds very detached me

spudlet7 · 15/07/2018 23:53

Sounds like your Mum is BU. Not you!

trojanpony · 15/07/2018 23:55

How were they “taking they piss” about him liking lorries?

SmileSweetly · 15/07/2018 23:57

She refers to her as 'your daughter' and also refers to the 'drunk men', but she's with her Dad in the photos.

She's ridiculous.

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