AIBU to hate my boring husband?!!!

[PickleLickle83]

So as my name suggests, i love a holiday, but my husband never wants to go on one and even the discussion of booking one turns into a massive row...AIBU to hate my husband and seriously consider booking a holiday to take the kids away without the boring f**ker to prove a point? He always blames money (we earn around £85k between us so not exactly poor!) What would you do, dump the boring git and go without him or just book the holiday with him included and just tell him that it's happening?!!

Go without him!

Go on holiday without him YANBU

Book it with him included. If he doesn’t want to go then enjoy the holiday without him.

Really ????

LTBB

(Leave the boring bastard)

Go without him

And what did you mean about your name. I don't get it

What are his reasons?

And YANBU, surely the kids want to go?

Just book a holiday for you and the kids and leave him to it.

Tell him you and the children are going on holiday and ask him if he wants to come. If he says no then go without him.

Is this a duplicate thread?

I don't really get it. Do you never go an holiday then? Is he just very tight (in which case LTB) or does he just not like holidays? If so, why are you with him if you are so incompatible?

Surely there must be a reason behind his reluctance...is he very stressed? Does he have a lot of worries?

Pretty sure my dh (who works part time in an easy job) thinks I'm boring (working full time in a stressful job and taking all the burden of family stuff).

How does your name reflect your love of holidays?

You have two threads running on this BTW

Three!

Why do you have to hate him? Just go on a separate holiday