Me and DP have just realised the only nights we have spent together without either alcohol, television or both is once when I was ill and the week I was in labour 
absolutely shocked!!
We only drink a few times a week and when we do the telly goes off and we chat, but the other days in the week we definitely sit mindlessly in front of the box!
Decided now to have one day a week no booze, no telly, no phones, no distractions!
AIBU to hope our relationship isn’t doomed!!!