I started a new job now that long ago, and within days I knew it was very different to anywhere I've ever worked before. There's a micromanagement culture and it seems everyone's small or bigger life events are shared with the whole office, and if you're more of an independent, private person you're a viewed as a bit of a weirdo.
Every single thing I do is scrutinised and/or picked up on. I have diagnosed anxiety so this is terrible for me. It's not just work, although that's bad enough.
For example, the other day I forgot to wear my wedding and engagement ring to work, I don't wear then all the time as I take it them while showering etc. This was noticed, and several people asked me if I was okay in a really concerned tone. I soon twigged that was the reason. The boss then asked me herself if there were problems. It was literally one day!
I keep getting told I am quiet today, told I look sad, etc etc, and I just hate it. It's just me, I'm just getting on with my life/job. Some of the questions I get asked are downright nosey, such as questions about my relationship, when I am going to have children, etc etc.
Maybe it's just my anxiety, but I hate this constant scrutiny and being checked up on. AIBU?