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Has an ex's girlfriend ever approached you?

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GoodRiddance90 · 01/07/2018 10:29

Just that really. Has it ever happened to you and what did they say? Ex got a new girlfriend, and I feel like it's only a matter of time before she finds out how he's really like and how toxic his family is.

And I'm also thinking about everything ex and his family told her about me, maybe she would like to verify that I don't know. We live in the same town and she's around my children, so I know sooner or later we will meet.

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kitkatsky · 01/07/2018 10:31

Stay out of it. Nobody will thank you for getting involved. If you cross paths in time then so be it, but don't go out of your way to make it happen or you'll just come off as the crazy, jealous ex

GoodRiddance90 · 01/07/2018 10:34

Oh god no, I'd never go out of my way to meet her. I just know we will meet sooner or later because of the children.

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kitkatsky · 01/07/2018 10:37

Well don't worry about the bow. When you meet they'll either still be together or they won't. If it's the former then just smile and make pleasantries, if it's the latter you might be able to have a convo about your shared misfortune, but honestly for now just stay out of it

LonginesPrime · 01/07/2018 10:44

And I'm also thinking about everything ex and his family told her about me, maybe she would like to verify that I don't know.

But she's around your children, you're not around hers - why would she feel the need to verify anything?

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