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What is wrong with me ?!

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cookiemonster18 · 29/06/2018 23:50

When in doubt ask mumsnet !
I feel awful to be writing this post and hoping for some honest opinions (just not too brutal... lol who am I kidding)
I’m in a happy relationship and have a gorgeous three month old. My OH is great, he’s supportive and is working hard for me and DS.
I’ve been out with friends and he has had baby for the day and likewise he’s been out and I’ve been at home.
I don’t think it’s normal however the way I feel when he’s late and doesn’t communicate with me!
For example, last night was his first proper night out at a gig in town. He stopped answering my messages and when I finally got through to him he was in the pub and home way later than he said. We had commitments in the morning (car work) that he didn’t wake up for and that left me pretty fed up.
I struggle with anxiety and sleeping without him and just get generally upset when he’s out late. I then get upset with myself for thinking that way!!! Am I a massive horrible b!?

OP posts:
BellaJessica · 29/06/2018 23:53

Op you have a small baby you are allowed to feel stressed and anxious and want him to stick to his word. In the scheme of things he is only doing minor annoying things, but thats enough to annoy anyone.

BellaJessica · 29/06/2018 23:54

You are not a massive horrible bitch. Sorry you are feeling like this. Have you told him how much you are anxious?

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