to hate everything about myself

[WhatAMessIAm]

Especially my appearance. I'm a big fat monster. I hate myself. I want to change but I can't. The more I fail the worse I feel. I hate myself so much

No, I know I'm not B U. I am however quite drunk, so the wine is helping blank out the crapness that is my brain :(

No one is a big fat monster. You are being hard on yourself. Would you say such things to a friend? No. So why say them to yourself? Be kind to yourself like you would a close friend.

Could have written that myself. Sorry you feel like this too.

It's horrid that you feel that way about yourself. How long have you been feeling like this?

Anoisagusaris - it's shit isn't it. I hope you r ok. I feel like giving up. I just wish there was something good about me. My stomach is like a sack. I'm like a piece of shit. Why do I bother?

I’m sure you have plenty of lovely attributes. Don’t be so hard on yourself.

Treat yourself to some flattering clothes, and be kind to yourself.

Other than your appearance, what else can you tell us about yourself? What are your interests, which charities would you like to help, how often do you contact a friend first to meet-up, what was the last film you saw in the cinema, what was the last book you read, if you had a £1000 to spend on anything you liked what would you spend it on?

The wine will make you feel worse, trust me on that.

Tell us about yourself? Partner? Children?