My first post so please bear with me. Having a hard time at home with a controlling husband that I am trying to leave. He's making life really difficult constantly bad-mouthing me in front of the kids and also always puts the kids in situations they don't need to be in. He knows that i had to re-learn to speak following a bike accident yet tonight he encourages DS 9 to go down a 1in3 hill to the local shop on his scooter (with him) without a helmet. In our house its a golden rule you always wear your helmet on a bike or scooter. DD13 currently has had enough of him. AIBU?