Will try and keep to the point. My stupid sister got in a car with a drunk driver so I pointed out how you got to be a special kind of stupid. She told me to stop mothering her and I'm toxic. I'm ten years older then her and won't make light of such a dangerous stupid thing and the harm it will cause. Another sibling piped up and agreed with me. Sister due to go on hol, asked me to pick her cat up and drop it off at our mums. I pointed out my mums isn't secure, it's a short stay and the cat will probably run away and hide even though they previously lived there. Just been told I'm on thin ice for pointing this out and she's ready to cut me out. Am I being petty to just say go sort your own cat out and I'm not a taxi. Her attitude towards me has just been shitty. Or am I being precious and slightly irritable? This heat isn't helping