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To want to punish DP

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Sophisticatedsarcasm · 19/06/2018 07:22

So this morning DP wakes me up at 5am to ask me why I was watching porn without him. I was like are you kidding me? Apparently he was checking I had my alarm on 🤔 and saw porn on my phone. One I don’t watch porn and two of he cared to divulge a little further he would have seen it was a pop up. So naturally I was on the verge of strangling him, then just getting back to sleep and he starts going on about peoples posts on Facebook. I straight out told him I wasn’t interested as I’m trying to sleep... finally get back to sleep and he rings me on the way to work to tell me FIL has asked to borrow some money because he’s still waiting for the solicitor to pay him his money back that he used for step mums funeral. I tried to sound supportive but I’m sure I wasn’t doing a good job, get off the phone look and see I have 15 mins till my alarm and guess what he calls again, I’d pretty much given up on the last 15 mins and seriously feel like p7nishing him. What pisses me off more is he knows I struggle god getting to sleep as it is. What’s some good payback people 😊

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Star1234567890 · 19/06/2018 07:38

My Mum once served my Dad a roast dinner but didn't cook the vegetables.

Star1234567890 · 19/06/2018 07:38

You can blame the disturbed sleep 🤣

Whatshallidonowpeople · 19/06/2018 07:40

What do you mean by divulge a little further? That's not what it means.

Tangled59 · 19/06/2018 07:41

Doesnt sound funny to me. Sounds selfish at best and controlling at worst.

bluemascara · 19/06/2018 07:42

Kick him in the dick when he's trying to sleep

ILoveMyDressingGown · 19/06/2018 07:52

Why would he be checking your phone, especially so early in the morning? That makes me wonder if he's checking up on you - does he not trust you or does he really think you're not capable of setting your own alarm? Have you forgotten before? I wouldn't be getting revenge; I'd be telling him to keep his nose out of my phone and, if he can't, I'd be changing the PIN on it.

Sparklesocks · 19/06/2018 08:30

He checks your phone while you sleep?

🤔

theothermum · 19/06/2018 10:36

He made the fuss about the porn so that it would be easier for you to agree to lend the money to his father.

RB68 · 19/06/2018 10:39

Punishment is to go to bed later than him and kick the bed several times as you "try" to be quiet

Sophisticatedsarcasm · 19/06/2018 13:50

Yeah I have forgotten my alarm before so he often checks to make sure it’s on. If he doesn’t trust me that’s on him I’ve never given him any reason to believe I have been playing away. I never would.

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ForgetMeNotCat · 19/06/2018 13:52

Whatshall - might have meant delve

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