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Husband pervs over fb pics

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Honeypot00 · 16/06/2018 16:26

My DH is lovely in every way, but his internet history shows he’s always looking at pics of other women. Some young, some not so. All pics are ‘provocative’. He says he loves me and sex is great, but he’s had an affair before (in a previous relationship).
AIBU looking! Possibly?
Does anyone else’s partners do this?
I’m not anti porn but it does unsettle me a little...
Thoughts please!

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BasilFaulty · 16/06/2018 16:35

I'm confused, does DP know these women or is he just looking at random scantily clad pictures of women?

UtterlyDesperate · 16/06/2018 16:38

He's clearly not "lovely in every way" given that this is seriously sleazy behaviour Hmm

whattodowheretogo · 16/06/2018 16:39

Eurgh, yuck.

halfwitpicker · 16/06/2018 16:39

What basil said

Notcool1984 · 16/06/2018 18:53

As in people he knows on FB?

Tangled59 · 16/06/2018 19:01

Need more info as basil says

Flatearthersphere · 16/06/2018 19:02

Grim

Bellabutterfly2016 · 16/06/2018 19:07

Alarm bells are ringing here
He'd be out if he was was my husband or partner

I'm sorry but he can't be happy if he's looking at them, otherwise he wouldn't be doing it!!

Newbieuser1880 · 16/06/2018 19:11

Is it people he knows or you know? Is checking history a regular thing, reason I ask does it mean you are concerned about him already

busybarbara · 16/06/2018 21:21

It's the 21st century and men do tend to look at pictures of women online. You shouldn't be snooping.

Honeypot00 · 17/06/2018 10:06

I’m not sure if he knows them. They’re local(ish). The last one was from the town he grew up.
I honestly don’t know what to think. Some are ‘normal’ pics. Some are provocative. However all on their pages for anyone to see!
Hope that makes sense!

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bungaloid · 17/06/2018 10:13

On some level it's a bit weird but I think the average female might be disappointed if they got a true insight into the average male brain. Better not to know rather than seeing a pervy internet history. If it was just run of the mill porn is that better?

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