DH and I are planning a fairly big holiday for October this year. It's a bit spur of the moment but somewhere we really want to go and we've had a rough year. I have been to the area when I was much much younger and have therefore done lots of research, got prices together and spoken to family and friends who have been there before. DH wants to plan it all himself and gets really resentful if he doesn't think of an idea (even a good one iyswim) but would rather watch tv or mess about with his phone than actually do research or read up on it. He then says he is overwhelmed and doesn't know enough when I try and talk about it. AIBU or is he?