To be sooo frustrated by bra shopping

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This is not strictly AIBU but I couldn't find Chat... so I am 2 weeks post surgery for breast cancer. I still have both boobs but one is missing a small chunk. Anyway my AIBU is can I vent my frustration at not being able to find a soft bra that bloody fits big boobs? Ordinarily I am 32H. I have tried M&S, bravissimo, Debenhams, various websites and nothing quite does the job and sits flat in the middle, meaning I end up with a hot sticky cleavage. Nice. The nurse suggested I try primark for crop tips - I would need a size 20 probably to fit everything in! Good people of Mumsnet can you help...

Sainsbury's do some comfy crop top thingies. They cater for XL size.

I wear an L and love them.

www.molke.co.uk/product-category/bras/

Ooh those look interesting branleuse thank you. Do you wear this brand?

Herat thank you. Do they create a mono boob tho?

You wouldn't need a size 20!
Next do 32g/h crop tops

At 32H you defo wouldn't need size 20. Molke are nice.

www.next.co.uk/style/st287466#528970

www.sugarcandybra.com

I’m heavily pregnant and find this the most comfortable bra i’ve ever owned - I’m normally a 30gg

No soft cup bras actually separate sadly. Try Maternity/nursing styles.

Molke has everything close but one of the crosses can sit between boobs and they're less monoboob than a sports bra as you can see cleavage...

Purple I am currently living in 2 sugar candy bras - one a M one a L. They are still not big enough in the cup and just squash everything together. Very comfy though, especially when I had to sleep in a bra...

Thanks Monkey hadn't considered Next - those look worth a try x