my dh has pretty bad OCD, I'm struggling to cope living with him and don't know how to deal with it. It appears to be worse since we've had a child (and second due anytime) either that or I'm on a shorter fuse now I'm so tired. We can't leave the house without him doing his 'checks', can't get out the car until he's parked it dead straight, he's constantly going behind me straightening things and reorganising my things, he even drinks his coffee three slurps at a time. The list is endless and I keep losing my rag and we end up arguing. It's totally draining but he won't recognise he has a problem. Can anyone offer advice?