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To think this guys a dick?

45 replies

underthestarcover · 25/05/2018 23:10

2 dates with him, went well. Then had a slight argument over something stupid and then he ignored my text. Said I’d call to sort it out (we talk all the time on the phone) and he didn’t answer.

So I just left him to it and decided obviously we weren’t meant to be. This was yesterday.

He’s now text me tonight to send a kissing emoji and then straight away follow it up with a “sorry wrong chat”

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underthestarcover · 25/05/2018 23:11

I mean he might very well be talking to another woman but surely that wasnt sent to me by accident Hmm

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Puddlejumps · 25/05/2018 23:11

Time to move on. You deserve a relationship with a grown up and someone who respects you. Respect yourself and move on.

OrangeKettle · 25/05/2018 23:12

He's trying to make you jealous / make you think he's texting someone else.
He's texted you accidently on purpose.
Ignore him and his childish behaviour.

21jumpstreet · 25/05/2018 23:13

Delete and block. What a dick.

BlondeB83 · 25/05/2018 23:13

Ignore and delete

userabcname · 25/05/2018 23:13

Ha! What a loser! Bet there isn't even another chat - he's trying to get a reaction from you. Ignore, block, move on. Or reply something like 'thank god' if you're feeling petty (but then still block and move on).

SaucyJack · 25/05/2018 23:13

Do yourself a favour and block him.

Total penis.

BlueTrousers · 25/05/2018 23:14

Oh god is he 15?! I’m embarrassed for him
Just ignore him forever, it’ll do his nut in

minimalpatience · 25/05/2018 23:15

Trying to bait you. Block him and ignore. You're fortunate you found out early that he is a dick

underthestarcover · 25/05/2018 23:16

I read it and didn’t react to it ... so hopefully that pisses him off.

Childish but I feel like if I block him he’ll think it’s because I’m upset.

I’m not upset Grin it actually made me laugh.

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AnathemaPulsifer · 25/05/2018 23:16

Definitely ignore.

underthestarcover · 25/05/2018 23:16

Oh god is he 15?! I’m embarrassed for him
Just ignore him forever, it’ll do his nut in

Yes 15 ... plus another 19 years.

A 34 year old man is doing this Confused

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AnathemaPulsifer · 25/05/2018 23:18

Tragic!

DesignStatement · 25/05/2018 23:18

block ~ the message will be clear then

Leopoldstotch · 25/05/2018 23:18

You should have replied "who is this?" Always works without fail when someone is trying to goad you

LastOneDancing · 25/05/2018 23:19

What a bellend.

Definitely sent to wind you up. Ignore him - he'll be checking his phone every 3 minutes for your response.

MistAmougstElephants · 25/05/2018 23:20

This is reason 87,546,764 as to i hate men Grin Glad it made you laugh OP Wine

Angie169 · 25/05/2018 23:21

I think it is hard to judge someone on the first few dates ( unless it is clear you wont get on ) as most people are still on there best behaviour , but if you argued so early on and then he ignores your calls then sends (imo) a wind up / jealous text I would drop him like a hot brick

MistAmougstElephants · 25/05/2018 23:21

What Leo said! "New phone who dis?"

iklboo · 25/05/2018 23:23

Reply 'sorry, who's this?'

21jumpstreet · 25/05/2018 23:27

Actually, forget my previous post. So what other posters have suggested and reply “who is this”

Ethylred · 25/05/2018 23:29

It's over, it never happened, there's no point expending energy in thinking about him.

Chickychoccyegg · 25/05/2018 23:32

Haha, he is a complete sick!
I agree with the completely ignoring, that's bound to have annoyed him Grin

crazycatgal · 25/05/2018 23:32

Ignore him, the saddo will be fuming.

LooseyInTheSky · 25/05/2018 23:39

Of yeah fuck that. It's way too early to be putting up with bullshit like this. Get rid.

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