DH have been going through a 'bad patch' for the past couple of months. However, the arguments have stopped and everything is back to being cordial and fairly relaxed, with a couple of laughs thrown in. Considering that I thought DH was at the point of leaving, I am at least grateful for being where we are at the moment. The affection has not returned however, and he seems to be making a point about not wanting sex. I just feel like i'm on such a roller coaster, constantly wondering when this is going to end and things will get back to 'normal'.
Before you say 'talk to DH and ask him' - he is definitely not a talker and does not want to talk about it. When I have tried in the past it has just made things worse, not better.
For those that have been through a relationship bad patch, how long did it really take for things to get back to normal?