The ex has said there has never been a problem with drugs.
Court order states had to have hair sample taken within 14 days....She went awol didn't do drugs test within 14 days (and then tried to blame us)
Anyway that was Friday. We saw the ex yesterday and she has cropped her hair (about 1cm short, prob an inch on top) and bleached it white.
Obviously as she had not ever taken drugs (just takes kids to crack houses and passes out as a general social activity, as you do) the test is no problem (I've had a gin and just can't be polite any more)
What is really like to know is
- what the courts are likely to do
- if they can still do the test
- if they can't still do the test what the courts will do.
I'm going to have to have another gin. This is the most stressful situation ever. I want to cry a bit, into my gin, because I'm worried what's obvious to us won't be to the courts....and they will say nice haircut and the test will become void.