My husband is super sensitive and gets angry if I ever hint st something that may offend him.
He’s not been to the dentist since we got married. This is 10 years ago. He doesn’t really brush his teeth properly and he has really bad breath. This upsets me because we probably haven’t kissed properly for about that time, and I really miss it. We do sometimes have and I always make sure that he’s sexually satisfied in other ways, but for me I really miss the kissing and find that going straight in really isn’t much of a turn on.
AIBU to feel sad about this. If I ever hung at it or tell him he gets really angry and won’t talk to me, and when he starts to cone out of it, he just doesn’t mention it again.
I’ve been with him for over 20 years. He’s had the dentist a handful of times in that duration.
I sometimes fantasise about kissing other men, I know it’s wrong and I would never ever act upon it. It makes me feel so guilty.