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Worried about myself

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Thanksgiving · 05/05/2018 03:09

Feel so down.
Confidence in tatters after a few weeks of having my ego battered. 4 different social groups have not included me in events eg work colleague wedding everyone else invited, school mums night out, our neighbourhood street party.
I try to be friendly and inclusive to everyone but people seem to dislike me apart from my actual friends.
On top of this I moved into a house I hate to get dd into the nice school which turns out is pretty awful.
Dh suffering from anxiety so trying not to put on him but I’m questioning everything about myself

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owlalwaysloveyou · 05/05/2018 03:56

How awful for you :( you always hear it gets better once you leave school but it gets worse! I'm sorry I've nothing productive to say to improve things as I'm not much of a social butterfly or even caterpillar myself if I'm honest but I hope things improve for you soon!

Rollawolla · 05/05/2018 04:02

It's tough being the odd one out. The only positive you can take from this is that they are not worth your time so don't bother entertaining them. You said in your post you have some real friends devote your attention to those who are nearest and dearest. They are the ones who will know you and love you truly for the wonderful person you are.

Thanksgiving · 05/05/2018 07:45

I think I am a bit of a social butterfly though maybe that’s the problem I spread myself a bit thin.
Kind of winded with this latest one though though I would have been invited.
Think it must be Me though can’t have so many different sets of people dislike you for no reason.

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Thanksgiving · 05/05/2018 07:58

Do

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