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To despise after school play dates

6 replies

Highhorse1981 · 26/04/2018 17:35

On every level

My lovely clean home becomes a bomb site

My usually chilled relaxed well behaved children become hyper

The noise outbursts and destruction

Hate it

Am I alone

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Screaminginsideme · 26/04/2018 17:39

Nope! Hate them.

AlwaysDancing1234 · 26/04/2018 17:41

I try to suggest meet ups at the park on the weekend instead for these very reasons!

lemonsunshinecake · 26/04/2018 17:45

The very deepest levels of hell will involve an after school play date scenario.

ConciseandNice · 26/04/2018 17:48

We do the park. I can’t stand it otherwise. The destruction and noise. It’s like so many kids are feral animals these days.

AmazingPostVoices · 26/04/2018 17:49

Don’t do them then, they aren’t mandatory.

Highhorse1981 · 26/04/2018 18:00

I needed to help out a friend.
We popped to park but chilly and no coats

The worst bit is seeing how my children change!

And seeing our home being so roughly handled. It makes me wince but I don’t want to stop them having fun. Although I did just raise my voice when one of lobbed a ball at the tv. I mean these children are 5.5 and 8. Surely behaviour should be a bit better.

It’s dreamy when my daughter has friends over. The play, they chat. It’s a joy

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