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Question about FWB

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Strawberrycheesecake90 · 21/04/2018 21:01

Are you exclusive with your fwb? How long have you had a fwb? And what do you do on the days you see your fwb? Except for you know.. And do you let them stay over at your house?

Would love to especially hear from the single mums with DCs.

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OutofSyncGirl · 21/04/2018 21:03

I’ve had fuck buddies. They never stayed at my house nor I at theirs. I just had sex with them and then that was it. I think anything in between that and a relationship just gets confusing.

Redglitter · 21/04/2018 21:07

I've had a FWB for 6 years. We chat on What's App between visits but we don't go out anywhere. He comes over to mine about once a week, usually in the morning. The benefits Wink are usually as soon as he gets here. Afterwards I'll make lunch is sometimes does things around the house that need done. We have lunch with and blether for a while then he goes home.

We don't spend the whole day together and he never stays over

ClandestineAdulation · 21/04/2018 21:07

Yes we’re exclusive.

Been FWBs for way too long, probably about 2.5 years but it’s controversial to my friends as he’s my ex.

We talk, watch TV, sleep...

And yes we stay at each other’s places.

I will stress that out arrangement is not typical of a FWB but it works for us!

Strawberrycheesecake90 · 21/04/2018 21:29

Redglitter is he coming to the house in the mornings to avoid meeting your DC?

I'm interested in knowing how you keep your fwb from meeting your DCs? Especially if your DCs are older, teenagers. What do you do then ?

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chestylarue52 · 21/04/2018 23:05

4 months. No he doesn’t stay. We fuck, we have a quick chat and cuddle/stroke, he leaves. We sporadically text, once every two or three days.

chestylarue52 · 21/04/2018 23:06

I have no idea if we’re exclusive. I don’t have sex with other people but I would if I wanted to. He might, I’ve never asked. We use condoms so I don’t mind either way.

chestylarue52 · 21/04/2018 23:09

He does do any heavy lifting required around my house and helped me move house. He’s a nice man, essentially

JaceLancs · 22/04/2018 00:01

We spend weekends and holidays together
Not exclusive but I know the 3rd party and we are now friends (weird I know)
More friends than lovers although very cuddly touchy feely (mainly due to age)
We help each other out, household jobs, finances, tlc eg

Redglitter · 22/04/2018 22:37

Redglitter is he coming to the house in the mornings to avoid meeting your DC?

No it's because it's convenient for us both and I get rid of him early afternoon Grin

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