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Daisypops · 12/05/2007 10:03

Theres probably been loads of threads on this but I need to vent somewhere!

I'd just got out of the shower this morning and DP starts wanting sex, I said no and he hounded me for ages, in the end I had a massive paddy and hes now stormed out!

I don't think he understand how much I have to do in a day, dd needed milk, I have loads of housework to do and he just expects me to drop my pants and oblige when he fancies it.

The other night when I tried to instigate(sp?) sex he was having none of it and went to sleep. I didn't carry on pestering him and then walk out FFS.

OMG, I'm so pissed off.

OP posts:

kimi · 12/05/2007 10:13

Men, bloody stooopid the lot of em!

You are not being unreasonable, he is


purplemonkeydishwasher · 12/05/2007 10:15

what is it with men and sex? they make out like we use it as a weapon when it's sooo the other way around!


lissielou · 12/05/2007 10:15

god forbid you should not want it the second he does grrr


chocolattegirl · 12/05/2007 10:26

My dp can be like this but sure as eggs are eggs, he'll be back later wanting some more . YANBU.


NotQuiteCockney · 12/05/2007 10:31

The hounding is really out of order. If someone says 'no', that has to be listened to. And sulking and having a paddy is so attractive, I can't believe you didn't just drop your pants then.


BandofMothers · 12/05/2007 10:34

Trouble is they're thinking with the little head, and it doesn't have a brain.
Being hounded makes me so horny.........NOT


fortyplus · 12/05/2007 10:37

We're both 46 and he's still like it! He says it's because he loves me... silly sod. I love him, too - doesn't mean I want to shag him all the time - once or twice a month would do me!


kimi · 12/05/2007 10:42

God your sexy, oh I want to make mad passionate love to you right now , come on you know you want to.

Look let the baby cry it wont hurt, and you can do the washing later, the dog can wait to be let out, I love you soooooooo much I must have you right now

Why don't you want to? what have I done don't you love me any more?. look I'll be quick.

Why are you so fridged, my mates wife don't behave like this.



chocolattegirl · 12/05/2007 10:45

As often as twice a month .


fortyplus · 12/05/2007 10:49

I only said that's how often would suit me dh has other ideas!


missuspirana · 12/05/2007 10:54

No you should surrender your body to his at all times. He is after all your lord and master, you are a mere chattel.


fortyplus · 12/05/2007 11:00

Maybe I won't tell him that


kimi · 12/05/2007 11:04

40+ you are a raving nypho, twice a month...... twice a year would do for me


bananabump · 12/05/2007 11:07

Mine knows not to bother asking for anything in the morning now. My bits are for weeing with in the morning, nothing else.


fortyplus · 12/05/2007 11:07



chocolattegirl · 12/05/2007 11:10

LOL @ Bananabump. A good book at night works wonders as well .


fortyplus · 12/05/2007 11:11

I read that as a 'good bonk' - I am clearly obsessed....


chocolattegirl · 12/05/2007 18:53

I think I'm missing some hormones . A good book is more appealing to me at the moment .

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