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Toddler keeps bumping his head at nursery.

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coffeeforone · 12/04/2018 11:51

I'm not sure if IABU to take it further with the nursery or not. DS is 23 months and goes to nursery full time (8am-6pm Monday to Friday). Over the past 3-4 weeks he has fallen and bumped his head (always enough to create a big bump and twice a decent cut). Does this seem excessive for within a nursery setting. He has also had 9 days off over this period for holidays and easter weekend so hasn't actually been there full time.

I can count on one hand the number of times he has bumped his head at home since he started walking over a year ago - and only once had a bump like the nursery ones when he ran into a door corner at about 13 months.

Does the number of nursery head bumps seem excessive?

Or is it normal for a toddler to bump his head often and is he just lucky to have never bumped his head at home recently. We don't 'over-supervise' at home too much (except on the stairs which he is still learning to walk up/down), he is very active and runs around A LOT and there are plenty of door frame/table corners etc - he just seems to be aware of them and doesn't run/fall into them at home.

I'm not sure what is different at nursery and if i should raise it with his key worker/manager or is this a non-issue?

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coffeeforone · 12/04/2018 11:52

Sorry - I don't think I said in my OP - 4 bumps in the past 3.5 weeks

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Cicera · 12/04/2018 11:56

Might it be that he's more active at nursery? And with other children they're probably all bumping into each other, too.

I'd raise it in a "can you keep a special eye on him" way, not a "my precious baby how dare you" way. That would be fine in places I've worked.

Talcott2007 · 12/04/2018 12:02

I'd ask for a meeting just to discuss if there are any common pattens with how the bumps are happening - say they are happening at he same time of the day, I say this as DD gets super clumsy when she is tired! - it does seem a lot for such sigificant bumps to happen - DD is 23mnths as well and in nursery full time and frankly a bit feral at the moment so regularly get little bruises/marks on her head if she bounces off somthing wrong but a can't even remember the last time she had a bump significant enough to cause a lump or proper cut!

coffeeforone · 12/04/2018 17:36

Thanks both. I’ll speak to the nursery and see what they say.

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