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Not to wait more than 3 days

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Harvestmoonsobright · 11/04/2018 15:19

for him to call following a really successful date.

I initiated. He emphasises he would be in touch soon.

3 days no call. Should move on?

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Trinity66 · 11/04/2018 15:21

3 days isn't that long but I guess you'd expect if someone was really into you they would call? I don't know people are different, it's been a while since I was "dating" but when I first started seeing DH we spoke everyday on the phone if we didn't see eachother in person

Pengggwn · 11/04/2018 15:21

Has it been three full days? So, this is the fourth day? If so, I'd move on. Sorry!

19lottie82 · 11/04/2018 15:22

Hmm. If he was really into you then I would have expected a call or text by now tbh.

Not always the case though. Why not text him to say you enjoyed the date and see if he wants to meet again? His response will tell you what you need to know.

HollowTalk · 11/04/2018 15:23

It's torture, isn't it? I'd assume he wasn't interested, particularly as you were the one to initiate.

Merryoldgoat · 11/04/2018 15:26

Yes, I’d forget it. It’s stupid game playing.

Harvestmoonsobright · 11/04/2018 19:36

Thanks all for replies. It was a lovely but, Yep. Move on.

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hareagain · 11/04/2018 19:50

Just contact him. Crossed wires as to who is going to contact who...? He may be thinking same. Should clear it up.
Def no game playing.

Harvestmoonsobright · 11/04/2018 20:20

Thanks Har. No crossed wires. Totally ok that 'he's just not that into' me. Just checking out that my timeline is reasonable. 😉

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