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To resign over email?

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Tortycat · 30/03/2018 23:26

I've worked at this place for 6ish years. I've recently decided to resign to be a sahm and do some freelance work. I know i should speak to my boss in person but i want to resign asap and now hardly ever see her. The meeting i arranged a few weeks ago (about something else) she cancelled and she's generally out of the office or busy, so i can't just pop into her office.

I dont want to burn my bridges with the company in case i might want to look to return sometime. But i also don't feel that loyal as since i went on mat leave for the second time I've felt sidelined e.g. i returned to work in august last year and still not had a back to work meeting - only ever quick corridor chats. She's cancelled the 2 meetings I've asked for. WIBU to email my resignation over the weekend??

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NeedForBlossom · 30/03/2018 23:29

I think you need to email her notice that you want to resign - what's your notice period?

Zeze247 · 30/03/2018 23:29

I’d do it by email but preface it with you wanted to do it face to face but haven’t been able to

Sparky888 · 30/03/2018 23:31

Ive done it by email before, in a nice way. And then talked about it when they are ready. I actually think it’s a better way, so they aren’t shocked x

geekone · 30/03/2018 23:34

Copy in hr and state uiubasked for a 1-1

geekone · 30/03/2018 23:34

You asked Blush

Ramirez · 30/03/2018 23:57

Most resignations are required in writing, so I don't see why an email should be any different. Just end it with sincere positives of your time there.

stopfuckingshoutingatme · 31/03/2018 00:18

Just send a reallly polite email and explain younwouldnhave done it face to face but have not managed to catch her

Tortycat · 31/03/2018 00:24

Thanks all. I think i feel bad doing it over email as its a small team and we used to be friendly. But as i said i feel I've been sidelined since then and pretty much left to it so maybe i shouldnt feel too bad.

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