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Do I tell him I stalked him before I even met him?

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alligatortoss · 29/03/2018 20:37

Had a date with a guy. He told me a funny and very interesting story about his friend and his Instagram model girlfriend (now ex).

Anyway I was curious to see what they looked like do I did look.

This was 2 months ago. Never saw the guy again as there was no spark.

Funnily enough I’ve now matched with his friend on tinder and we are going out tomorrow night. Do I keep quiet about the whole thing?

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Mightymucks · 29/03/2018 20:38

Keep quiet about it. If it develops into something you could casually mention you think you recognise one of his FB friends or something.

ShweShwe · 29/03/2018 20:38

Well of course. Unless you want to look like an out and out loon?

Starchime22 · 29/03/2018 20:55

Definitely don’t say anything. What’s to say really anyway? You looked at a picture of him on Instagram when his profile is public? Isn’t that the point of having one?

LockedOutOfMN · 29/03/2018 20:56

No!!

FranticallyPeaceful · 29/03/2018 20:57

WTF is an Instagram model

alligatortoss · 29/03/2018 20:57

No more that I know about his ex (the story I was told) and that I’ve been on a date with his best friend

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CocoPuffsInGodMode · 29/03/2018 20:59

You didn't stalk him Confused

Batteriesallgone · 29/03/2018 21:00

I’m the kind of person who would use this as an opener! Ha!

I met DH on online dating, and when I met up with him for the first time I told him my housemate had googled him and pronounced him acceptable to be brought back to the flat Grin

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