Ive been on home swapper a few years and have been tirelessly messaged by a lady for 3 years on and off asking about a mutual exchange always her wanting to move to mine, but the homes were wrong or in the wrong place as i wasnt interested in her area, ... Finally she messages me last week telling me of a 3-way swap in an area close to my family and hounded me to go view and to tell the lady im a serious swapper (which i am) and view asap, so i did that and loved the home, and told the lady i wanted the swap! the lady (who hounded me) has come to view mine, she loved the home, then all of a sudden her daughter who is in late 20's and just arrived back at the mothers house i over heard her on the phone asking the mother which house is better! i am gob smacked as i now realise that the daughter is calling the shots and dont understand why i was even brought into this 3-way. and had to put my family through this if really what they wanted was a choice of mine and the other ladys home.. im angry and frustrated!